I Saluti
Greetings
The first word I saw on arriving in Rome was “Benvenuti!” (Welcome!). Everywhere I went, I heard Italians calling out saluti (greetings)—if not in person, then via their telefonini (cell phones). Friends and acquaintances salute each other with the most familiar of Italian words: ciao, which does double duty as “hi” and “bye.”
I learned its history years ago on my first trip to Venice . A waiter at the caffè where I came every day to sip espresso and watch the pigeons swoop across the Piazza di San Marco joked that my “ciao” sounded too Tuscan. Coaching me in the Venetian pronunciation, he explained that the word itself was a local invention.
In the glittering heyday of the city natives proudly refer to as La Serenissima, correspondents signed letters, “Il Suo schiavo” (your slave). Meeting on the street, acquaintances would bow and repeat the same ingratiating words. However, in the Venetian dialect, which softens the hard sound of sch (pronounced sk in other regions) to a chewy sh (as in show), Suo schiavo came out sciao, which melted into ciao as it migrated to other parts of Italy.
Italians use “ciao” informally with those they know by first name. A more polite greeting is “Salve!” According to my etymological dictionary, it dates back to the Latin of ancient Rome as a way of extending a welcome and encouraging frieds to make themselves at home. The first words of the Catholic prayer, “Hail Mary,” translate as “Salve Regina” (Hail Queen).
The salutation you’re most likely to hear in shops and restaurants is “Buongiorno” (Good day), generally used until lunch time, which is later in the south than in the north. From then on, the typical greeting is buonasera. But if an Italian injects a buonasera in the middle of a conversation, don’t get up to leave. It’s also an ironic way of signalling the end of a task or discussion—or of the impossibility of ever sorting out a thorny problem. As for la buonanotte, save your “good night” until you’re actually going to bed.
Italians we know sometimes take their leave with “ti saluto” or “vi saluto” (I salute or greet you, singular or plural). “Stammi bene!” (Stay well), our good friends say with a hug, kisses to both cheeks, and one ciao after another. “Ci vediamo!” (We’ll see each other!”) we call out. And then, because we really do hate saying goodbye, we repeat the entire process all over again.
Words and Expressions
a dopo -- until later
alla prossima volta or alla prossima –- until the next time
a presto -- see you soon
a domani –- until tomorrow
addio –- a final, eloquent good-bye
arrivederci –- until we see each other again
Dianne Hales is the author of LA BELLA LINGUA: My Love Affair with Italian, the World's Most Enchanting Language.

