The Sweetness of Doing Nothing in the Italian Language

 

 

il dolce far niente

the sweetness of doing nothing 

 

 

 by Jody Paglia Goode

This guest blog by Jody Paglia Goode, a fellow Italophile (and a CPA based in Des Moines), is one of the most popular posts I've ever run. I'm re-publishing it just in time for summer vacation.   Buona lettura!  (Enjoy the read!) 

 

A few years ago while I was sitting on a beach in Southern Italy, I noticed a man kicking a soccer ball down the shoreline. He kicked it a few feet at a time, nothing too strenuous, just a nice bit of play in the middle of a glorious sunny afternoon. It struck me as unusual that this man would take the time to do this. It was as if he had all the time in the world at his disposal and the only thing he cared about at that moment was kicking that soccer ball. 

The explanation for his behaviour then occurred to me. He had developed the abilty to practice l’arte di non fare niente. This is an Italian expression which translates as the art of doing nothing. Ah, dolce far niente! It is also known as the sweetness of doing nothing. Now let's ponder this for a moment or two. 

Such poetic phrases aren't they? In the United States we refer to this as killing time, a crude and brutal term that implies wastefulness. Yes, we are a nation of overachievers and multi-taskers. Now don’t get me wrong, I can multi- task with the best of them, but every so often I think of that man, kicking that soccer ball, and I yearn for a little down time of my own. 

A term such as "the art of doing nothing" implies something more than sitting in a lazyboy in front of a television set. It demands more from us. The art of doing nothing and doing it well could be realized in many ways. 

For some it may be reached by drinking wine on the deck while listening to the cicadas or by lingering over several cups of coffee with an old friend. No box wine or instant coffee will do. For some it may be accomplished by sipping tea by the fire, with a cat softly purring nearby, or by watching a baby sleep. For others the art is practiced by taking the time to share a story or two with the locals at the market. People watching at the piazza, a swing at the park, and making animal creatures from play dough would all qualify. 

 I know what you are thinking. None of the above mentioned things are nothing, and they are indeed something. L’arte di non fare niente implies spontaneity and doing a thing for nothing more than the pleasure of doing it. The man on the beach was not out to refine his technique, burn carbs, or impress the ladies. He was kicking that ball for no other reason that the sheer enjoyment of his solitary movement along the water’s edge, and that, my friends, is a beautiful thing.

Words and Expressions 

stare/starsene in panciolle -- to idle, to lounge (in panciolle means literally “con la pancia all’aria” or with your belly to the air) 

oziare -- to idle away, to lie about 

ciondolare -- to hang about, to loaf about, to sit around (doing nothing) 

bighellonare -- same as ciondolare but also wander about, as in bighellonare per la citta’ (to wander around the city doing nothing in particular) 

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Comments

[Alessandra]

I love this art so much.

[Valerie]

Great post - something I've gotten quite familiar with in the last year - really appreciating those moments. Am actually just now in the middle of "La Bella Lingua" and I savor that book on the porch with wine in the spirit of dolce far niente indeed. I hope you don't mind, I quoted your book "Ah, signora, you are learning the Italian secret ... the art of living" (Enrico Paoletti) recently in a post - is one of my favorites that reflects this mentality, learning to let go ... and enjoy life. Thank you, Diane!